So Bara doesn't have as much rape? Just another reason why it's the superior genre.
Do you know much about yuri? Does it have a lot of rape and pedophilia in it like yaoi? If it doesn't, I don't see how yaoi twats can have the nerve to get offended if someone likes yuri but hates yaoi.
"actually some couples do fit the uke/seme 'stereotype'"
O RLY? You're sure you're not talking about a work of fiction, because I've yet to see any real life STRAIGHT couple act like that unless they're on the News about the woman/girl that was murdered by her husband/boyfriend.